Khejur Gurer Payesh. (Rice pudding with palm jaggery) 

I think all Bengalis eat this dessert, irrespective of their Eastern or Western origins. I remember growing up eating it at least 2-3 times a year. Since the khejur gur is mostly available in winter, its during wintertime that you get to eat this in almost every Bengali household. The gur is made from the sweet sap of the palm tree. The tree is tapped and the earthen pots put in place for collecting the sweet sap by evening and collected early in the morning to be drunk fresh or turned into gur. But in summer, the sap ferments and turns into toody! Hence, the availability of the gur in winter. But over the years I became clever and started keeping some gur in the fridge to last me through the year, to turn into payesh, especially during birthdays.My Dida, Mashi, Jethima, and Ma have fed it to me several times, but the recipe was always the same. Of course the quality of the payesh depended on the quality of the gur. And these ladies made sure they got the best. Last year I had taken a trip to Dawki and saw some of the best khejur gur from Bangladesh on sale there. I had never tasted a more aromatic khejur gur before! Even though our ancestors were from that land, most of us have never been to Bangladesh. But we still speak of 'Desher khabar,,,,,,desher ilish.......desher gur...... God Almighty, you only created a beautiful Earth for us..... It is we who have created boundaries. Shegufta.....this one is for you. In knowing you, I feel closer to the land I am supposedly from.

Ingredients

Milk: I lit, preferably Amul Gold
Bay leaves:2
Kishmish: a handful
Khejur gur: One 'dhima' or round, chopped
Joha rice: 1 cup

Method:
Bring the milk and bay leaves to a boil in any vessel. I prefer a wok as there is a lesser chance of the milk spilling over due to large surface area.
Slowly pour the washed rice and cook till the rice is done.
Put off the gas and allow the payesh to cool a little as the milk might curdle if kishmish and gur are added to it while it is too hot.
Slowly add the gur and kishmish and stir till all the gur blends with the milk
It is preferaby eaten cold. Tastes better next morning. :)